so we are friends. we have been, even then, before we used to be together.
okay, so we're fb friends, as well. it doesn't hurt to like some things here and comment some things there.
dropping by his page after seeing an approval hand with a likes this on my recent post, i saw some interesting shout-outs on his wall, jargons as few commenting friends put in - obviously those not bothering fondling with internet savvy, mr. google.
so the posts spells as,
Ik hou van jou...
12 hours ago
Jeg elsker dig...
Yesterday at 10:36am
Men seny jaksy kuremyn...
Tue at 11:16am
Volim te...
Mon at 12:17pm
i find myself actually smiling after getting the first search engine result. aha!
as kris would place it, "love love love love love"
and as i tried to remember the last conversation i had with him, i smile because i have the reason to smile. for him.
this note with or without affirmation, i smile because i think the world owes him this one, with two years' interest.
maybe it comes with the guilt feeling of having wanted to break things off first before.
maybe it comes with that constant prayer before that he'll first find another partner before you would.
maybe it comes with the fact that he is, and will always be among the few people who would always know you best.
that or simply, because i'm happy where i am right now
and who i am with that i hope him that, as well.
as my good friend Norman put it, who i believe has also recently separated ways with his very charming then-girlfriend, break-ups need not be bitter. and i say, even if you're in a relationship, you can't own someone.
rather, you can simply be important - or extra-important - to each other.
that's the beauty and complexity of love, relationship and of partnership, i guess.
it takes a lot of work.
taken at the bay Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
♥
